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Monday, November 10, 2008
Why shouldn't we judge others?
Every one of us has different character. We, almost everyone, have the habit of judging other people. Every one has different metrics to categorize other people. Those metrics are the main factors to decide others characters. They are given by external circumstances.
I had heard about a shocking story of an eight year old girl. She was kidnapped by two policemen, when she was returning from her school. She was molested and raped by them. How would you judge the policemen’s character? Definitely Bad, right?
There are lots of people like them whom we are facing in our every day life. Why shouldn’t we judge them?
Those people weren’t born with those characters. They were given these characters only from their circumstances. They don’t know how to give up those. I would say they need to be seen as people who are physically challenged. I wouldn’t recommend seeing those with mercy. But I would say they need to be seen with love. Why?
In that previous incident I explained, My opinion is both of them(that child and policemen) were suffered. Obviously the policemen were suffered by mental illness. As they are mentally in bad condition, hurting their mind wouldn’t help to cure their mental illness. Obviously we are responsible for the their behavior. What we are spreading? We are spreading competition… We are spreading Jealousy… Very few people of us are spreading love around the world… Be responsible for current world and others behavior. Stop hating others…. Love them all…
So, from now onwards, whenever you have to face a person with bad character, don’t hurt him. Do something to realize his character or mistake without hurting his heart. You can show angry to correct him. But you should be aware of the object of your angry that is for his goodness (like a mother’s angry)
Stop punishing others…. Love all… Spread love around you….
See also:
How can you help this world to be peaceful as an individual?
Keep your goals away from your happiness
Tips to increase your creativity
Make your death as key tool to start
I had heard about a shocking story of an eight year old girl. She was kidnapped by two policemen, when she was returning from her school. She was molested and raped by them. How would you judge the policemen’s character? Definitely Bad, right?
There are lots of people like them whom we are facing in our every day life. Why shouldn’t we judge them?
Those people weren’t born with those characters. They were given these characters only from their circumstances. They don’t know how to give up those. I would say they need to be seen as people who are physically challenged. I wouldn’t recommend seeing those with mercy. But I would say they need to be seen with love. Why?
In that previous incident I explained, My opinion is both of them(that child and policemen) were suffered. Obviously the policemen were suffered by mental illness. As they are mentally in bad condition, hurting their mind wouldn’t help to cure their mental illness. Obviously we are responsible for the their behavior. What we are spreading? We are spreading competition… We are spreading Jealousy… Very few people of us are spreading love around the world… Be responsible for current world and others behavior. Stop hating others…. Love them all…
So, from now onwards, whenever you have to face a person with bad character, don’t hurt him. Do something to realize his character or mistake without hurting his heart. You can show angry to correct him. But you should be aware of the object of your angry that is for his goodness (like a mother’s angry)
Stop punishing others…. Love all… Spread love around you….
See also:
How can you help this world to be peaceful as an individual?
Keep your goals away from your happiness
Tips to increase your creativity
Make your death as key tool to start
Friday, October 24, 2008
Powerful mind: Throw your reactive mind away
A person, who can be hurt by others, is dangerous to the peaceful of this world. If you can not be hurt by external factors, you would not hurt anybody. Powerful mind is not an attacking mind; not a protective one; It is peaceful one.
See also:
How can you help this world to be peaceful as an individual
Keep your goals away from your happiness
The power of Silence
Taking a break from all your worries
How we are reacting to the situations comes from external factors? Whenever we are facing a new situation or new task, we have a habit of giving some judgment such as it is comfortable for us or not, good or bad… etc. That judgment is your reaction about that particular situation. How this judgment affects your mind?
If you think that situation is good, then your mind will be addicted to that external factor which causes that situation (Ex. Smoking, games, alcohol). Your level of addiction depends on how much you like the situation. Like that, if you think that situation is bad, then your mind will be hurt (financial crisis, periods of job searching…etc)
How can we stop the reactions?
Only solution to stop your reactions is realization. You should realize the judgments are made of your past experience. You should be aware while making that judgment. Is it possible to delay the judgment? If it is possible, then you can stop reacting to external factors. Then you will see the tough tasks ahead of you in new dimension.
If you think that situation is good, then your mind will be addicted to that external factor which causes that situation (Ex. Smoking, games, alcohol). Your level of addiction depends on how much you like the situation. Like that, if you think that situation is bad, then your mind will be hurt (financial crisis, periods of job searching…etc)
How can we stop the reactions?
Only solution to stop your reactions is realization. You should realize the judgments are made of your past experience. You should be aware while making that judgment. Is it possible to delay the judgment? If it is possible, then you can stop reacting to external factors. Then you will see the tough tasks ahead of you in new dimension.
See also:
How can you help this world to be peaceful as an individual
Keep your goals away from your happiness
The power of Silence
Taking a break from all your worries
Wednesday, October 15, 2008
Open your mind
Who are you?
Every one has different answers for that question. Some would mention their name. Some would reply with their profession. Some would answer with their nationality. Every one of us is playing many rolls in our life.
Who are you? What are the rolls are you playing? Write down all your answers as many as possible. Strive to cover all the rolls you are playing.
Now start deleting your answers one by one. While deleting every answer, feel yourself as you are losing that identity. For example, you would be nameless after deleted your name. You would not be belonging to any religion after deleted your religion identity. Do the same for all of your answers. After deleted all those, you would not be belonging to any of your past identity.
Now sit silently for few minutes. See all the things around you as you are seeing that for the first time. See your house as new… See your Spouse, Parents and kids as some one else.
Now see yourself as someone else with eyes closed. See your thoughts. Don’t block it. Don’t justify it. Just see it…. While seeing your thoughts you may experience the silence. Silence is the most powerful meditation.
Try that and share your experiences with me. I hope that would be interesting tool to refresh and change your thoughts.
See also:
The power of present moment awareness
Keep your goals away from your happiness
A Great Day ahead of you
How can you help this world to be peaceful as an individual
Every one has different answers for that question. Some would mention their name. Some would reply with their profession. Some would answer with their nationality. Every one of us is playing many rolls in our life.
Who are you? What are the rolls are you playing? Write down all your answers as many as possible. Strive to cover all the rolls you are playing.
Now start deleting your answers one by one. While deleting every answer, feel yourself as you are losing that identity. For example, you would be nameless after deleted your name. You would not be belonging to any religion after deleted your religion identity. Do the same for all of your answers. After deleted all those, you would not be belonging to any of your past identity.
Now sit silently for few minutes. See all the things around you as you are seeing that for the first time. See your house as new… See your Spouse, Parents and kids as some one else.
Now see yourself as someone else with eyes closed. See your thoughts. Don’t block it. Don’t justify it. Just see it…. While seeing your thoughts you may experience the silence. Silence is the most powerful meditation.
Try that and share your experiences with me. I hope that would be interesting tool to refresh and change your thoughts.
See also:
The power of present moment awareness
Keep your goals away from your happiness
A Great Day ahead of you
How can you help this world to be peaceful as an individual
Monday, October 6, 2008
Tips to Increase Your Creativity
1. Brainstorming:
It is a traditional method to generate large number of ideas. Write down all the ideas come from your mind as it is. Don’t reject your bad ideas. Be grateful for your mind for those ideas. One thing you need to remember is rejecting the bad ideas would kill your creativity.
2. Change your routine; Do something differently than your routine. Work in different places.
3. Learn something new:
Spend at least 15 minutes per day to learn something new such as learning a foreign language, new software...etc. Learning improves the efficiency of the right brain.
3. Take a walk for 30 minutes. Walk without your old thoughts. Don’t think about your worries. Just walk.
4. Laugh: Laughing helps you to relax your mind. It allows your ideas to flow.
5. Be curious about everything. Curiosity is the main factor for the creativity.
6. Don’t be afraid of rules; don’t be afraid to make mistakes.
7. Take a break sit in silence.
8. Remember your childhood days… Think yourself as a child… Be joyful. Play with children.
9. Understand your opinions about your creativity and break them all.
10. Sleep 7 hours a day.
11. Be humor: Humor helps you to be open for new ideas.
12. Try to cry….. and try to laugh while crying.
13. Imagine yourself as a popular person you know. Write something from their point and rewrite it from your view.
14. Dance for fun. Dance without rules.
15. Rearrange the things in your house and work place.
See also:
How can you help this world to be peaceful as an individual
Keep your goals away from your happiness
The power of present moment awareness
Taking a break from all your worries
The power of acceptance
It is a traditional method to generate large number of ideas. Write down all the ideas come from your mind as it is. Don’t reject your bad ideas. Be grateful for your mind for those ideas. One thing you need to remember is rejecting the bad ideas would kill your creativity.
2. Change your routine; Do something differently than your routine. Work in different places.
3. Learn something new:
Spend at least 15 minutes per day to learn something new such as learning a foreign language, new software...etc. Learning improves the efficiency of the right brain.
3. Take a walk for 30 minutes. Walk without your old thoughts. Don’t think about your worries. Just walk.
4. Laugh: Laughing helps you to relax your mind. It allows your ideas to flow.
5. Be curious about everything. Curiosity is the main factor for the creativity.
6. Don’t be afraid of rules; don’t be afraid to make mistakes.
7. Take a break sit in silence.
8. Remember your childhood days… Think yourself as a child… Be joyful. Play with children.
9. Understand your opinions about your creativity and break them all.
10. Sleep 7 hours a day.
11. Be humor: Humor helps you to be open for new ideas.
12. Try to cry….. and try to laugh while crying.
13. Imagine yourself as a popular person you know. Write something from their point and rewrite it from your view.
14. Dance for fun. Dance without rules.
15. Rearrange the things in your house and work place.
See also:
How can you help this world to be peaceful as an individual
Keep your goals away from your happiness
The power of present moment awareness
Taking a break from all your worries
The power of acceptance
Monday, September 22, 2008
How can you help this world to be peaceful as an individual
We know this world is now becoming difficult to live. As an individual how can you help to bring the peace? Are you aware of your responsibility for that? You can do something if you accept your responsibility. This page will guide you to do something what you can...
1. Spread the Love around you:
I hope you would accept that spreading Love is possible for you. Yes… Love is the only way to bring the peace. You should love the people around you. You know that Love is the most powerful tool than any other. So Love the people around you… whoever they are…. However they are…. Whatever they are… Love them. Don’t care about their character… Don’t worry about the image you have about them… just love them… Love all the creatures in this world unconditionally…
I am sure it will spread like the waves created when a flower is thrown into a pond. Be a first person to make that wave… Your love is the flower, throw it out everywhere. It will make a magic to your inner and outer world. So, please help this world to be beautiful by spreading the Love.
2. Spread the happiness:
Is it difficult to make the person next to you to be happy? No. You have the abilities to make others happy. You know the tricks. You only need the curiosity to spread it. You can make others happy by sharing a joke, sharing their worries and giving some solutions…etc. You can send jokes to others by SMS or email, to make them happy .
Share the happiness when you are happy… help others to be happy when you are not happy… It will make you happy. It will break your worries. It will make your family with full of happiness. It will spread to your friend then to his family. It will spread all over the world…. Be happy… Spread happy everywhere.
3. Help others:
Make a habit of helping others especially those around you. How can you help others? Plenty of ways to do that… The only thing you need is the desire of helping others.
Not only by finance, you can help them by some other ways such as providing food to poor people at least once in a year, sharing your knowledge with others to improve their skills, help them to get rid of their problem by giving different view to their problem ….etc. If you are a rich person, you can sponsor for poor students’ education.
So make a habit of spending at least 15 minutes per day for other. It will be helpful for you to spend the remaining 23.5 hours effectively. I am sure you will find this as great tool. But one condition you have to remember is there shouldn’t be any condition. Help others unconditionally.
4. Create a page like this:
1. If you are a blogger or own a website, you can create a page like this with our own ideas to make this world peaceful. If you don’t have such one, you can create blog to spread the love.
2. You can make a post about this blog so more people can read.
3. If you already have a post like this, please let me know through the contact form. So, I may choose to give a link to that post in my List of posts about Love.
4. You can email this post to your friends.
Another must read post: The Power of love
See also:
A technique to become an expert in your profession
The power of Silence
Keep your goals away from your happiness
1. Spread the Love around you:
I hope you would accept that spreading Love is possible for you. Yes… Love is the only way to bring the peace. You should love the people around you. You know that Love is the most powerful tool than any other. So Love the people around you… whoever they are…. However they are…. Whatever they are… Love them. Don’t care about their character… Don’t worry about the image you have about them… just love them… Love all the creatures in this world unconditionally…
I am sure it will spread like the waves created when a flower is thrown into a pond. Be a first person to make that wave… Your love is the flower, throw it out everywhere. It will make a magic to your inner and outer world. So, please help this world to be beautiful by spreading the Love.
2. Spread the happiness:
Is it difficult to make the person next to you to be happy? No. You have the abilities to make others happy. You know the tricks. You only need the curiosity to spread it. You can make others happy by sharing a joke, sharing their worries and giving some solutions…etc. You can send jokes to others by SMS or email, to make them happy .
Share the happiness when you are happy… help others to be happy when you are not happy… It will make you happy. It will break your worries. It will make your family with full of happiness. It will spread to your friend then to his family. It will spread all over the world…. Be happy… Spread happy everywhere.
3. Help others:
Make a habit of helping others especially those around you. How can you help others? Plenty of ways to do that… The only thing you need is the desire of helping others.
Not only by finance, you can help them by some other ways such as providing food to poor people at least once in a year, sharing your knowledge with others to improve their skills, help them to get rid of their problem by giving different view to their problem ….etc. If you are a rich person, you can sponsor for poor students’ education.
So make a habit of spending at least 15 minutes per day for other. It will be helpful for you to spend the remaining 23.5 hours effectively. I am sure you will find this as great tool. But one condition you have to remember is there shouldn’t be any condition. Help others unconditionally.
4. Create a page like this:
1. If you are a blogger or own a website, you can create a page like this with our own ideas to make this world peaceful. If you don’t have such one, you can create blog to spread the love.
2. You can make a post about this blog so more people can read.
3. If you already have a post like this, please let me know through the contact form. So, I may choose to give a link to that post in my List of posts about Love.
4. You can email this post to your friends.
Another must read post: The Power of love
See also:
A technique to become an expert in your profession
The power of Silence
Keep your goals away from your happiness
Posts about Love
This page is fully dedicated to pages about love, peace...etc. If you have such posts like this, Please feel free to let me know through the contact me form. If don't have such thing, Please create a page about that. Thanks.
The list of pages about peace and love:
Life as I know it
The list of pages about peace and love:
Life as I know it
Saturday, September 20, 2008
Avoiding risk is very risky
Everyone wants to be safe in this world. Safe means securing from danger. But desire of safe is very risky. It makes you weak. Desire of safe is attribute of weakness. A deer should be more careful than a tiger. But a tiger need not to hide itself from a deer.
you think yourself as a deer. You are unaware of your inner power. You need not to be safe. The death is the safest place. But in life, risks are inevitable. If you choose to avoid taking risks, you are dead. But a person, who is not afraid of taking risks, is fearless in mind like a tiger. Do you want to be a deer or tiger?
Come out of your boundaries! Spread your wings! Enjoy this world!
you think yourself as a deer. You are unaware of your inner power. You need not to be safe. The death is the safest place. But in life, risks are inevitable. If you choose to avoid taking risks, you are dead. But a person, who is not afraid of taking risks, is fearless in mind like a tiger. Do you want to be a deer or tiger?
Come out of your boundaries! Spread your wings! Enjoy this world!
Read also:
Make your death as key tool to start
The Power of love
The power of present moment awareness
Taking a break from all your worries
Sunday, September 7, 2008
Beauty of Love
What else can make this world beautiful except love? Love all. Spread it everywhere.
Love only can bring the peace in this world. It is the only solution to stop the war. spread the love everywhere.
Tuesday, September 2, 2008
Keep your goals away from your happiness
Why we want to achieve big things? Why our mind always want to do something? Because we want to test our skills. We want show our talents to the world. Isn’t it? That is the base our goals for lots of us. We always want to show ourselves as what we are not currently.
A poor person want to become a rich man as he believes that richness would bring happiness to his life. Because he things that money is the only reason for his entire problem. He doesn’t know how to handle current struggle in his mind… So he thinks becoming rich person would bring the end for his problems. The ultimate base of our goal for lots of us is happiness. We want to be happy.
There is nothing wrong with having goals. But the base of our goals should not be happy. Why? What is wrong with having goals for happiness? The answer is “Nothing can make you happy”. You are the only administrator of you. But you gave the permission to some other external factors to control your mind. You can deny them anytime if you want.
Your happiness exists in this moment. You need not to postpone your happiness to future. Do you think that happiness will affect your progress on achieving your goals?Honestly, I don't think so.
Now, you may ask me, “What is best reason for having goals?” My answer is: It’s up to you. But it should not be for your happiness. You can live happily this life from this moment. There is no need to depend on something for your happiness. If you depend on external factors for your happiness, you are giving permission to those factors to affect your mind. Then you wouldn’t be an independence person to fix your life as your wish.
Conclusion:
Goals are good. But it shouldn’t be for your happiness. Be aware of the things which are resisting your happiness. Find the blocks and remove them to enable yourself for enjoying the life. Enjoy life from this very moment … Be happy for being you! Wishes to achieve your goals happily!
See also
How to face and solve a problem
A technique to become an expert in your profession
The power of acceptance
Free Ebooks: Personal Development
A poor person want to become a rich man as he believes that richness would bring happiness to his life. Because he things that money is the only reason for his entire problem. He doesn’t know how to handle current struggle in his mind… So he thinks becoming rich person would bring the end for his problems. The ultimate base of our goal for lots of us is happiness. We want to be happy.
There is nothing wrong with having goals. But the base of our goals should not be happy. Why? What is wrong with having goals for happiness? The answer is “Nothing can make you happy”. You are the only administrator of you. But you gave the permission to some other external factors to control your mind. You can deny them anytime if you want.
Your happiness exists in this moment. You need not to postpone your happiness to future. Do you think that happiness will affect your progress on achieving your goals?Honestly, I don't think so.
Now, you may ask me, “What is best reason for having goals?” My answer is: It’s up to you. But it should not be for your happiness. You can live happily this life from this moment. There is no need to depend on something for your happiness. If you depend on external factors for your happiness, you are giving permission to those factors to affect your mind. Then you wouldn’t be an independence person to fix your life as your wish.
Conclusion:
Goals are good. But it shouldn’t be for your happiness. Be aware of the things which are resisting your happiness. Find the blocks and remove them to enable yourself for enjoying the life. Enjoy life from this very moment … Be happy for being you! Wishes to achieve your goals happily!
See also
How to face and solve a problem
A technique to become an expert in your profession
The power of acceptance
Free Ebooks: Personal Development
Tuesday, August 26, 2008
A great day ahead of you
Imagine yourself as surrounded by full of happiness and joy with eyes closed… It is a great experience, isn’t it? Why not make you surrounded by them in real life too? You can achieve that today. You are not going to read such as “101 great tips to enjoy the life” or “7 ways to improve your life”. To achieve that you need to do only one thing, which is you have known very well. No one needs to tell how to do that... It is a sure-fire way to turn this day as great day…
Love is great. Love is Wonderful… It is beyond the words…. No other thing can do the dramatic change like love. Can you love all the things in this world? Why not? You can! All of us can do it successfully. No need to wait for something to love all the creatures of the nature. Here we go!!!
First thing you have to do is you should love yourself. You cannot love anybody until you love yourself. Love yourself as a friend. Love yourself deeply. Love the others as you love yourself. Love your spouse… Love your parents… Love your friends… Love who hates you… Love who loves you… Love all the creatures in this world!!! Why not to include your enemies in this list? Love your enemies too… Love them truly! Help them to succeed! Love all the plants in this world! Love all the peoples from different countries, different cultures and different religions. Love all! Love all the good persons! Love all the worst guys too! Your heart has enough place to all!! Realize it!!! Break the limits which resist you from love other! This day is going to be a great day in your life! Love others only for love! Break the conditions! Come out of the rules which make you to refuse to love others! Love me! Love him! Love her! Love them! Spread the love to people around you by loving them! Spread the love in all directions!!! Love can change the world! Spread the love! Love makes you happy! Spread the love! Spread the happiness!!!
Thanks for your love! Thanks for spending your golden time!!!
See also:
Taking a break from all your worriesThe power of present moment awareness
Free Ebooks: Personal Development
Thursday, August 21, 2008
The Power of understanding
(I have used the term “UNDERSTANDING” in the meaning of giving your focus or consciousness to understand something and analyzing it)
Understanding is the most powerful tool to succeed something. It is the reason being for the winning. If you look at the winners of any field, you will find the secret of their success. They understand their field very well than any others. Understanding is an attribute of success. Understanding will convert your goals and challenges to Success. If you try to control something, it will become more difficult to handle and achieve. Obviously lack of understand will definitely bring some confusion.
If you want to succeed something, you should understand it first. Then you will find the ways to succeed it naturally. For example, If you want to succeed your enemy, you must understand them clearly than they did(that means how he did understand himself). If you understand the strength and weakness of your enemy, you can succeed them easily.
To understand Yourself:
If you want to understand something, First you need to understand yourself. If you can’t do that, you can’t understand anything. It is the one of the hardest things to achieve. Nobody can help you to understand yourself. They may give some tips, but you only can teach yourself. But it is not an impossible one. A mind refreshment practice will be helpful to achieve.
To understand something:
If you can understand yourself, you will be able to understand anything you need. In these days, to understand something is not very hard. There are lots of resources for us. Internet is the gift for us to know everything we need.
Useful tip to understand something is:
Ask many questions as much as possible related to that. Strive to find out the answers. If you decide to pursue something, you will definitely find it. But we have no interest to do so or we are unaware that we are doing things without understanding it.
Another interesting point:
We understand the things clearly which we like rather than we hate. It is a well-known point for lots of us. But how many of us are using that point to understand the things which we are struggling?
One time, One of my best friend was struggling with some financial problem for years. At that period, he couldn’t sleep and work effectively. Sometimes he didn’t take food because of that worries. After a long struggle he realized the truth. That is: Food, sleep and work are more important than money. Those things can not be ignored for any other. Financial problem is tough. Money is only for his happiness and it is not more than his life. When he understood the the relationship between the money and life, he got rid of his financial problem within next few months.
SO, I request you to understand the importance of Understanding. That is the aim of this post. Thanks for visiting Enjoy the world.
Read also:
The Power of Silence
How to face and solve a problem
The Power of present moment awareness
Sunday, August 17, 2008
Free Ebooks:Personal Development
Last night I found some wonderful ebooks on personal Development for free. They are very good in quality and some of them from famous authors.
You will need Adobe reader to read those books. If you don't have that, No need to worry. There is a link to download a free copy.
Reading such books like those will reveal some of the mystery of our mind. It will save lot of time by increasing our concentration and confidence.
The List of the ebooks:
The Confidence booster by Anna-Marie stewart
I Create Millions by Christopher Westra
The Law of attraction explained by Kenneth James MacLean
Think and Grow Rich by Napoleon Hill
and lot more....
Get those Ebooks here for free
Enjoy reading those books. Thanks
Read also:
A technique to become an expert in your profession
How to fix and achieve your goal
Make your death as key tool to start
You will need Adobe reader to read those books. If you don't have that, No need to worry. There is a link to download a free copy.
Reading such books like those will reveal some of the mystery of our mind. It will save lot of time by increasing our concentration and confidence.
The List of the ebooks:
The Confidence booster by Anna-Marie stewart
I Create Millions by Christopher Westra
The Law of attraction explained by Kenneth James MacLean
Think and Grow Rich by Napoleon Hill
and lot more....
Get those Ebooks here for free
Enjoy reading those books. Thanks
Read also:
A technique to become an expert in your profession
How to fix and achieve your goal
Make your death as key tool to start
Wednesday, August 13, 2008
Micheal Phelps at his peak
Micheal Phelps, The US swimmer has made a record of winning the 10th and 11th gold medals of his Olympics games career. He is participating in eight events. He has finished 5 events with six World marks. What a great achievement? But the main reason for this post is his sense of humor.
He said, "I got 80 text messages today. One of my friends said to,"Dude, how many times a day do I have to see your ugly face?".
Every one of us always want to touch the heights which cannot be touched by anybody. How many of us are ready to work hard than any body? "Hard work" means working with hard things to make it easier, not working hard. Because Lots of us are making the simple things as harder and keep telling "I am working hard".
He said, "I got 80 text messages today. One of my friends said to,"Dude, how many times a day do I have to see your ugly face?".
Every one of us always want to touch the heights which cannot be touched by anybody. How many of us are ready to work hard than any body? "Hard work" means working with hard things to make it easier, not working hard. Because Lots of us are making the simple things as harder and keep telling "I am working hard".
See also:
A technique to become an expert in your profession
Taking a break from all your worries
Mind refreshment
Tuesday, August 12, 2008
The power of acceptance
There is no self-growth or Personal Development without acceptance. It means accepting an experience without an intention to change it. Acceptance will improve our life dramatically.
We have lots of believes about our self. We always reject the truths which are against our believes. Whenever we come to know about our weakness, we reject it immediately by giving some reasons. If we can accept that truth, we will come out of that weakness. We should be honest to accept it without feeling guilty.
- If you accept your weakness, You will come out of it
- If you accept your dishonest, you will become honest
- If you accept this moment without any changes, you will have a great future.
- Brendan Francis
See also
The Power of Silence
The Power of present moment awareness
A technique to become an expert in your profession
Tuesday, August 5, 2008
The Power of Silence
Silence is an attribute of divine. The main function of our mind is thinking. If we can make silence in our mind, we will realize the power of silence. Our mind is produced by our thoughts. Why we are always thinking? Could we stop that? It is so difficult to attain, but it isn’t impossible. Silence is a powerful tool to attain peace and joy.
We can attain the silence by understanding our thoughts. Understanding is a powerful tool to achieve anything. If we understand the origin and nature of thoughts, Silence will come to our mind silently. We shouldn’t focus about that. If our mind noticed that, it will become active. So let your thoughts to come and go. Don’t try to stop that. You can’t do that so. This is an effective method to achieve silence.
I request you to find out an answer for this following question:
How would you speak inside your mind if you don’t know any language?
Your comments are appreciated!
Enjoy the life by realizing the power silence!
Wednesday, July 30, 2008
The Power of present Moment awareness
I don’t know that where you are living. But I am sure lots of us are not living in this moment. Either we live with our past memories or spend too much time on planning for future. Every one of us should learn to live at this moment.
This moment is the gateway to a new thought, a new lesson, a new future, a new relationship, a new achievement and lot more. This moment is your future. This moment is your Joy. You may imagine about happy in future, but you can experience the happy at this moment only.
The relationship between you and your life lies in this moment only. All the things are exist in this moment only. If you like, you can convert this moment as happiest past for future. If you can enjoy this moment, you definitely can enjoy the remaining of the life.
Nobody can teach you how live in this moment. You only can find out the answer for that. I request you to practice Mind Refreshment. I request you to do a research about that. It you can live in this moment, you can achieve great heights in your life.
Enjoy your life from this moment!!!
Saturday, July 26, 2008
A technique to become an expert in your profession
The best technique to become an expert in something is sharing the things you've known. You may wonder how it is possible? what is the relationship between them? Here it is:
1. You learn better by teaching or sharing. By sharing or teaching, You refresh your knowledge about that.
2. By sharing or teaching, your mind will become more active to learn more. Since then your inner mind will remind you frequently to learn more.
3. While learning, your inner mind helps you to learn in detail. Because it knows you are going to teach other. So, it will make you as expert in what you are learning.If you don't like to share the things with anybody, your learning power will be reduced.
4. By sharing, you will move quickly in to next level.
1. You learn better by teaching or sharing. By sharing or teaching, You refresh your knowledge about that.
2. By sharing or teaching, your mind will become more active to learn more. Since then your inner mind will remind you frequently to learn more.
3. While learning, your inner mind helps you to learn in detail. Because it knows you are going to teach other. So, it will make you as expert in what you are learning.If you don't like to share the things with anybody, your learning power will be reduced.
4. By sharing, you will move quickly in to next level.
Experts are made, not born.
I hope this technique will be useful to the readers. Please share your views about this post.
Monday, July 21, 2008
Taking a Break From All Your Worries
Every one of us had tough times in our past. At that times, we were worrying about the reason being.
If you have watched your mind, you would noticed one thing. That is, We are always ready to worry about someting going to happen. We have the scripts for it. are we aware of these scripts which are given by our circumstances such as our parents, friends and relations?
We should find out our scripts for tough times. Then we can rewrite that script to face the problems rather than worrying about it.
Why we are worrying:
what could be your answer for the above question? I guess some of the following could be your answer.
1. To solve that problem
(You know that worrying doesn't solve any problem)
2. To remember that problem
(You need not to remember that problem rather than solve it)
3. To hurt yourself
(It is the perfect answer for that question. you hurt yourself by worrying)
4. To gain others sympathy
(This answer also the perfect one for lot of us)
So, You must understand the reasons for your worries. Make your mind ready to face anything. A mind refreshment will help you to understand your mind. Then you will start to face the problems. Nothing can affect you. Enjoy the Life.
Let me know about your views.If you have watched your mind, you would noticed one thing. That is, We are always ready to worry about someting going to happen. We have the scripts for it. are we aware of these scripts which are given by our circumstances such as our parents, friends and relations?
We should find out our scripts for tough times. Then we can rewrite that script to face the problems rather than worrying about it.
Why we are worrying:
what could be your answer for the above question? I guess some of the following could be your answer.
1. To solve that problem
(You know that worrying doesn't solve any problem)
2. To remember that problem
(You need not to remember that problem rather than solve it)
3. To hurt yourself
(It is the perfect answer for that question. you hurt yourself by worrying)
4. To gain others sympathy
(This answer also the perfect one for lot of us)
So, You must understand the reasons for your worries. Make your mind ready to face anything. A mind refreshment will help you to understand your mind. Then you will start to face the problems. Nothing can affect you. Enjoy the Life.
Thursday, July 17, 2008
Just another tip to refresh your mind
Are you struggling with some thing? Do you feel tired and unenthusiastic? If Your answer is "yes", I hope this post contains some useful tips to you.
Dancing is a good way to change your mind. you need not to be a professional dancer. Have you ever danced? If no, you should try this. It is as easy as walk. It is fun and energetic way to relax your mind.
Benefits of Dancing:
Dancing has lot of benefits. It is very effective way to maintain your body and mind as strong. It is useful to:
Boost strength
Reduce stress
Increase awareness about your body
Manage your weight
Increase your concentration
Refresh your mind
Tips to dance:
Play a song. you can do it with your eyes closed. Just listen to that music, and let your body to respond to it. Then your mind will give the instructions how to dance. Don't Press yourself to dance perfectly. When you feel your body tired, you can stop there. Don't press yourself for a long time.
After that dance, take a rest. Just look at your mind. How is your mind now? you can try this whenever you are alone. It is a great meditation too. It will be useful for self improvement.
I hope this post will be a useful one to the readers. Please let me know your opinion.
Dancing is a good way to change your mind. you need not to be a professional dancer. Have you ever danced? If no, you should try this. It is as easy as walk. It is fun and energetic way to relax your mind.
Benefits of Dancing:
Dancing has lot of benefits. It is very effective way to maintain your body and mind as strong. It is useful to:
Boost strength
Reduce stress
Increase awareness about your body
Manage your weight
Increase your concentration
Refresh your mind
Tips to dance:
Play a song. you can do it with your eyes closed. Just listen to that music, and let your body to respond to it. Then your mind will give the instructions how to dance. Don't Press yourself to dance perfectly. When you feel your body tired, you can stop there. Don't press yourself for a long time.
After that dance, take a rest. Just look at your mind. How is your mind now? you can try this whenever you are alone. It is a great meditation too. It will be useful for self improvement.
I hope this post will be a useful one to the readers. Please let me know your opinion.
Monday, July 14, 2008
Thanks
His name is Joel. He left a comment on my post "Beautiful world". It is really difficult for me to accept as he was not interested in that post . After that, I thought about to stop blogging for some time. Then I changed my mind, made some changes to my blog.
Now I have shortened my posts. Now, I got some more visitors than previous. I'd like to say thanks for him, because he has made some changes in my insight. I have added his blog to my blog list to show my thanks.
My request to every blogger is to give some real feedbacks to other bloggers. It will bring you good readers to your blog. Because, I used to comment on others blogs to attract them to my blog. Now, I have decided to give feedbacks honestly. Thanks Joel.
Now I have shortened my posts. Now, I got some more visitors than previous. I'd like to say thanks for him, because he has made some changes in my insight. I have added his blog to my blog list to show my thanks.
My request to every blogger is to give some real feedbacks to other bloggers. It will bring you good readers to your blog. Because, I used to comment on others blogs to attract them to my blog. Now, I have decided to give feedbacks honestly. Thanks Joel.
Sunday, July 13, 2008
Mind Refreshment
Make a habit of refreshing your mind once in the morning. How to do the mind refreshment? That is nothing but a small sleep with full of awareness...have you ever tried it...It is really a great experience to enjoy yourself.
Oh..you are living with that mind...taking decisions using that mind..but you don't know how it is working...that seems like you are driving a vehicle without knowing how to drive it...is it possible to drive without an accident...So, please start to understand your mind first by watching it..you can do it for whole day too...then you will start to enjoy your life....
You can use this technique to solve your Problems.
See also:
How can you help this world to be peaceful as an individual
The power of love
The power of Silence
- Just sit at a convenient position for you. Keep your back as straight.
- Then just close your eyes and watch your thoughts... I request you to just watch your mind...don't have to do anything.
- Don't try to control your mind. Just watch it.
- Watch your thoughts. Accept all the incoming thoughts and let it go.
- Within a week you will realize that your mind is not working in that period of mind refreshment. It is called "Silence". Silence is most powerful tool to refresh your mind.
- Keep doing that every morning... It will take some more time for some body whoever not realized their mind and never tried to learn how it is working...
Oh..you are living with that mind...taking decisions using that mind..but you don't know how it is working...that seems like you are driving a vehicle without knowing how to drive it...is it possible to drive without an accident...So, please start to understand your mind first by watching it..you can do it for whole day too...then you will start to enjoy your life....
You can use this technique to solve your Problems.
See also:
How can you help this world to be peaceful as an individual
The power of love
The power of Silence
Tuesday, July 8, 2008
Beautiful World
Every one of us know about the beauty of this world. But the aim of this post is to relax you for a few minutes by talking about that. I know it is very interesting to talk about. I know that I am not a good writer in English to describe about the beauty of the world. So, I've only used simple sentences to express my thoughts. If there are some mistakes, Please kindly ignore that. some of these are collected from various sites...
What a wonderful creation!!!
See the magic of natural!! We don't have to go anywhere to see that. No matter, who we are or where we are...Have a look to the sky!!! what a wonderful creation! I tried lot of times to create that effect of sky with clouds by Adobe Photoshop. But I couldn't make the effect of original. Whenever I look to the sky, i forget myself...
Beautiful sky, wonderful moons, uncountable stars, attractive clouds..... whenever you have a problem, just have a look to the the sky. It will be useful to get rid of your problem.
The French mathematician, Jules Henri Poincaré (1854-1912) says " The scientist does not study nature because it is useful; he studies it because he delights in it, and he delights in it because it is beautiful. If nature were not beautiful, it would not be worth knowing, and if nature were not worth knowing, life would not be worth living. Of course I do not here speak of that beauty which strikes the senses, the beauty of qualities and of appearance; not that I undervalue such beauty, far from it, but it has nothing to do with science; I mean that profounder beauty which comes from the harmonious order of the parts and which a pure intelligence can grasp".
Nature has created lot of planets. One of that planets is created to support life. It has plenty of features. It is a magnet to attract things. plants, animals, ...etc live in this planet. If it is too close to the sun, it is too hot to live. If it is too far from the sun, it is too cold to live. It keep this distance as perfect to live. What a wonderful creation!!!
Every creation in this space have been created for us to live happily. But lot of us haven't realized the truth why we are here. We are always struggling with tiny things.
My dear friend, come out of your problems. you can make your thoughts as big as this world. You can live happily and help others to the same. We are here to enjoy this beautiful world
Be happy!!! help others to be happy !!!!
What a wonderful creation!!!
See the magic of natural!! We don't have to go anywhere to see that. No matter, who we are or where we are...Have a look to the sky!!! what a wonderful creation! I tried lot of times to create that effect of sky with clouds by Adobe Photoshop. But I couldn't make the effect of original. Whenever I look to the sky, i forget myself...
Beautiful sky, wonderful moons, uncountable stars, attractive clouds..... whenever you have a problem, just have a look to the the sky. It will be useful to get rid of your problem.
The French mathematician, Jules Henri Poincaré (1854-1912) says " The scientist does not study nature because it is useful; he studies it because he delights in it, and he delights in it because it is beautiful. If nature were not beautiful, it would not be worth knowing, and if nature were not worth knowing, life would not be worth living. Of course I do not here speak of that beauty which strikes the senses, the beauty of qualities and of appearance; not that I undervalue such beauty, far from it, but it has nothing to do with science; I mean that profounder beauty which comes from the harmonious order of the parts and which a pure intelligence can grasp".
Nature has created lot of planets. One of that planets is created to support life. It has plenty of features. It is a magnet to attract things. plants, animals, ...etc live in this planet. If it is too close to the sun, it is too hot to live. If it is too far from the sun, it is too cold to live. It keep this distance as perfect to live. What a wonderful creation!!!
Every creation in this space have been created for us to live happily. But lot of us haven't realized the truth why we are here. We are always struggling with tiny things.
My dear friend, come out of your problems. you can make your thoughts as big as this world. You can live happily and help others to the same. We are here to enjoy this beautiful world
Be happy!!! help others to be happy !!!!
Sunday, July 6, 2008
Make your death as a key tool to start
I'd like to say about a person who is going to die. The problem is he doesn't realize his death. He is much worrying about the things which are going to happen in future. Is it a good way to spend his remaining life? Even an Idiot can say him, " Hey, you are going to die. why are you worrying about that things. Leave it. Start enjoying your life!!!".
My dear friend, this is very unfortunate to tell this. But that is true. you are that person. Do you realize that? you may, but i am sure most of us have forgot it. Every one of us lives with a mind set of "we will be here for a long". we may, but after that longtime?
If you have realized that, then you are one of the most happiest person in the world. Otherwise, you are struggling to live your life effectively. My request is you should accept that you are going to die. It can happen on any day, anytime, anywhere. So, Be ready to go.
Please try to imagine that you are going to die tonight. You have to enjoy your life within tonight. What would be your thought? Just try to see inside you, what are you thinking and why are you thinking like that?
According to me, Everyday I do remember myself about my death. Whenever i get problem, i will say myself, "you can face these problems only up to your existence". Then I will get motivated and since then it's really interesting to face any problem. We should remember that Life has lot of faces such as happy, angry, Problems, solutions, Promotions, good, bad, sad...etc...
So, If you do remember yourself at every morning that anything can happen today.., I am ready to face anything. Nothing can affect my Inner. I will be cool and start enjoying the life from this moment. I kindly request you to try that.
I am not coming to say that you are not enjoying your life.....Already you may.... But I have seen lot and lot people are always worrying about something...and they think that they only have the most difficult problems in the world. They haven't realized that every one of us live with our very own problem.
My dear friend, this is very unfortunate to tell this. But that is true. you are that person. Do you realize that? you may, but i am sure most of us have forgot it. Every one of us lives with a mind set of "we will be here for a long". we may, but after that longtime?
If you have realized that, then you are one of the most happiest person in the world. Otherwise, you are struggling to live your life effectively. My request is you should accept that you are going to die. It can happen on any day, anytime, anywhere. So, Be ready to go.
Please try to imagine that you are going to die tonight. You have to enjoy your life within tonight. What would be your thought? Just try to see inside you, what are you thinking and why are you thinking like that?
According to me, Everyday I do remember myself about my death. Whenever i get problem, i will say myself, "you can face these problems only up to your existence". Then I will get motivated and since then it's really interesting to face any problem. We should remember that Life has lot of faces such as happy, angry, Problems, solutions, Promotions, good, bad, sad...etc...
So, If you do remember yourself at every morning that anything can happen today.., I am ready to face anything. Nothing can affect my Inner. I will be cool and start enjoying the life from this moment. I kindly request you to try that.
I am not coming to say that you are not enjoying your life.....Already you may.... But I have seen lot and lot people are always worrying about something...and they think that they only have the most difficult problems in the world. They haven't realized that every one of us live with our very own problem.
Friday, June 13, 2008
HOW TO SET AND ACHIEVE YOUR GOALS:
You will find out some useful tips to achieve your goals.
Fix Your Goals:
"If you don't have any goals, please do fix your goal. It is really useful to make your future enjoyable"
Please fix a goal for your life. It maybe based on your personal or official. But the goal is important to set your future. Yes...your future is based on your goal and how you are going to work for that..
There are some goals for school students:
* Becoming as an artist
* Becoming as a scientist
* Becoming as a Software Engineer
* Becoming as a Doctor
* Becoming as a Engineer
There is some goals for age between 20-30s:
* Becoming as a Millionaire
* Becoming as a Business man
* Getting Higher post good concern
These are only some examples..It depends on your mind wealth..If you have great and broad mind you will definitely set a tough goal to achieve. So fix a tough goal to achieve. But remember one think... That is really very very important one..that you should keep on your mind that goals are to make your life enjoyable. So don't thing anytime that the goal is your life. It is only a tool to make your life happier than now...that's it....win or win only....
Achieve Your Goals:
"If you have a goal in your mind, please make a habit of thinking about it once in the morning. "
* Make a habit of thinking of your goals once in the morning. It is better to think after a mind refreshment. This is really a powerful way to achieve your goals.
* Create a plan to achieve that and choose a time frame for that.
* While creating a plan try to find out at least 5 ways to achieve your goals, analyze them and finally choose a effective way to achieve your goals.
Thanks and wishes to achieve your goal!!!
See also:
How to face and solve a problem
Power of love
How can you help this world to be peaceful as an individual
Fix Your Goals:
"If you don't have any goals, please do fix your goal. It is really useful to make your future enjoyable"
Please fix a goal for your life. It maybe based on your personal or official. But the goal is important to set your future. Yes...your future is based on your goal and how you are going to work for that..
There are some goals for school students:
* Becoming as an artist
* Becoming as a scientist
* Becoming as a Software Engineer
* Becoming as a Doctor
* Becoming as a Engineer
There is some goals for age between 20-30s:
* Becoming as a Millionaire
* Becoming as a Business man
* Getting Higher post good concern
These are only some examples..It depends on your mind wealth..If you have great and broad mind you will definitely set a tough goal to achieve. So fix a tough goal to achieve. But remember one think... That is really very very important one..that you should keep on your mind that goals are to make your life enjoyable. So don't thing anytime that the goal is your life. It is only a tool to make your life happier than now...that's it....win or win only....
Achieve Your Goals:
"If you have a goal in your mind, please make a habit of thinking about it once in the morning. "
* Make a habit of thinking of your goals once in the morning. It is better to think after a mind refreshment. This is really a powerful way to achieve your goals.
* Create a plan to achieve that and choose a time frame for that.
* While creating a plan try to find out at least 5 ways to achieve your goals, analyze them and finally choose a effective way to achieve your goals.
Thanks and wishes to achieve your goal!!!
See also:
How to face and solve a problem
Power of love
How can you help this world to be peaceful as an individual
Monday, June 2, 2008
How to face and solve a problem
“The way we see the problem is the problem.”― Stephen R. Covey
Every one of us are facing lot of problem in our daily life. Facing a problem tells us how we are facing the life. How? If you are the one who always try to escape from problem or always worrying about the problems you will have to face in the future, then you are not going to enjoy the life. yes...if you know how to face the problem, you will start to see the life as joyful and enjoyable. This article may help you to change the way you see the problem.
Every one of us are facing lot of problem in our daily life. Facing a problem tells us how we are facing the life. How? If you are the one who always try to escape from problem or always worrying about the problems you will have to face in the future, then you are not going to enjoy the life. yes...if you know how to face the problem, you will start to see the life as joyful and enjoyable. This article may help you to change the way you see the problem.
Whenever you face a problem, the first thing you have to do is, keeping yourself calm and quiet. Silence is most powerful tool to find out a solution. Whatever it is, first you have to be quiet. It is not a easy one. If you choose to keep quiet or silent, then it will come automatically. you don't have to do more. Just keep silent. If you can do that successfully, then you will find the solution for that problem. How is this working? If you can make your mind Silent or empty for couple of minutes, then you will have lot of energy to face the problem. The important thing is never ever to give up yourself. Keep silence till you find the solution.
How can we keep quiet in our mind while we are in a very big problem? It seems like it is very difficult one to do that. But it is really very very easy to do that if you try it correctly. First you have to understand yourself that you are living with some ready-made mind sets. That is whenever you are facing a problem, unconsciously you become angry and nervous. Because your mind refuse to accept that you are in a problem. You should make sure to remind yourself that you have the power of solving any problem. Remember we are doing nothing to breath regularly. We are doing nothing to make sure earth is rotating at right speed? You put enormous pressure on yourself unnecessarily thinking you have to do something.
Have you realized that till now? while facing a problem try to see yourself for a single moment, you will get a great insight about you at that moment. so, strive to accept your problem and realize that it can not be undone. Then only you can find out the ways to solve it. It's true. Try it out please...
Now find out the solution for that problem. Try to find alternative ways to solve that as many as possible. After that you will become more powerful man while facing a problem...
See also:
This will not change your life: A guide to welcome each day
How can you help this world to be peaceful as an individual
another tip to refresh your mind
The power of acceptance
Have you realized that till now? while facing a problem try to see yourself for a single moment, you will get a great insight about you at that moment. so, strive to accept your problem and realize that it can not be undone. Then only you can find out the ways to solve it. It's true. Try it out please...
Now find out the solution for that problem. Try to find alternative ways to solve that as many as possible. After that you will become more powerful man while facing a problem...
See also:
This will not change your life: A guide to welcome each day
How can you help this world to be peaceful as an individual
another tip to refresh your mind
The power of acceptance
Friday, May 30, 2008
Unconditional Love
Have you heard about that word previously?
" Unconditional Love"
- Love others for no reasons and without judgment
it is really difficult to do that..because you can not force yourself to love others..it has to come naturally. for that first you have to understand what is love? obviously there is no unconditional love. coz if you love somebody for something then there is no more love..isn't it? so, love means unconditional love
" Unconditional Love"
- Love others for no reasons and without judgment
it is really difficult to do that..because you can not force yourself to love others..it has to come naturally. for that first you have to understand what is love? obviously there is no unconditional love. coz if you love somebody for something then there is no more love..isn't it? so, love means unconditional love
Monday, May 19, 2008
Another Tip to improve your Life
Actually, try to understand at every moment of life life. Really..... you will see lot of magical changes in your life.... Please use a link below..this site is really a great one to change your life...I suggest you to follow the things to make your life health and wealthy.
http://www.soulnpeace.com
If you find it as useful, please share your thinking in comments...I am waiting for your feedbacks..
http://www.soulnpeace.com
If you find it as useful, please share your thinking in comments...I am waiting for your feedbacks..
Thursday, May 15, 2008
Enjoy The World
It is easy to say enjoy the world, but in the real life the result may be different. We can make our life enjoyable by learning, how can we enjoy the life.... I have tried to give some points to make you as enjoyable.... If it works for you, I am really happy.
1. Make a habit to see yourself at least two minutes per day. You can learn from yourself lot of things...If you can do that you will be the most happiest man in the world.
2. Learn to Love all the creatures in the world....It will make your life as enjoyable. If you can love anything in the world (including bad things), then you don't have to read this article any more
3. Set some goals, and rearrange your daily activities according to that goal...It will really make you a happy.
4. Health is wealth. Do some exercises daily such as walking, running...etc.. it will help you to be healthy.
1. Make a habit to see yourself at least two minutes per day. You can learn from yourself lot of things...If you can do that you will be the most happiest man in the world.
2. Learn to Love all the creatures in the world....It will make your life as enjoyable. If you can love anything in the world (including bad things), then you don't have to read this article any more
3. Set some goals, and rearrange your daily activities according to that goal...It will really make you a happy.
4. Health is wealth. Do some exercises daily such as walking, running...etc.. it will help you to be healthy.
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